feat(packaging): nfpm-based deb + rpm build infrastructure (spec §3-7, ADR 0007)

Implement the packaging configuration, staging script, maintainer scripts,
and container test harness for building native deb and rpm packages.

Core files:
- packaging/nfpm.yaml: single source of truth for both formats
- packaging/stage.sh: builds staged tree (venv, wrapper, helpers, units, polkit, sysusers, tmpfiles)
- packaging/fenris.conf: placeholder-commented default configuration
- packaging/postinst.sh, prerm.sh, postrm.sh: POSIX-compatible deb maintainer scripts
- packaging/rpm/post.sh, preun.sh, postun.sh: RPM scriptlets
- packaging/sysusers.d/fenris.conf, tmpfiles.d/fenris.conf: systemd fragments
- packaging/fenris.repo: dnf consumer setup
- packaging/keys/fenris-packaging.asc: public key placeholder

Build targets added to Makefile: stage, package-deb, package-rpm, package, release, clean.
Container test harness in tests/test_packaging.py covering dormant install,
migration guard, upgrade semantics, and removal semantics across the
compatibility matrix (Debian 12, Ubuntu 22.04/24.04, Fedora 40).
Dormant CI workflow at .gitea/workflows/release.yml.

All 289 existing tests pass without regression.

Co-authored-by: CommandCodeBot <noreply@commandcode.ai>

packaging/prerm.sh

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+#!/bin/sh
+# prerm — deb pre-removal (spec §7).
+#
+# dpkg calls: prerm remove  (package being removed)
+#             prerm upgrade  (old version about to be replaced)
+set -eu
+
+case "${1:-}" in
+    remove)
+        # Sanctioned disable — close the monitoring period as user_disabled
+        if [ -x /usr/libexec/fenris/fenris-monitor ]; then
+            /usr/libexec/fenris/fenris-monitor disable --now 2>/dev/null || true
+        fi
+        systemctl stop fenris-collect.timer 2>/dev/null || true
+        systemctl disable fenris-collect.timer 2>/dev/null || true
+        ;;
+    upgrade)
+        # Never interrupt monitoring on upgrade
+        ;;
+esac